How far do you want to go?
 
  Nigel Buxton Update
How far do you want to go? August 2005

 
  Dear Nigel,

You can be anything that you want! – Or can you?

Has anyone ever told you that you can be anything that you want to be? Skeptical? What do you say: "I could never make it (to be what I want to be)", or do you take little steps to get as close as you can (to being what you want to be)?

Everyone wanting to be CEO of General Electric, please join the (long) queue on the right.

When we set ourselves goals we should remember there are goals and goals: there is a distinction to be made.

 
 
It is winning which counts; or is it playing your best?

There is an end goal which says I will be first in the race – I will be the leading actor in the Broadway production of Monty Python's Holy Grail next year – or, I will be CEO of General Electric. Such goals have some interesting characteristics.

Firstly, the goal-setter does not have decision- making power regarding the result (and may not even know all the aspects that are in play) - who is chosen for the job. Secondly, he does not have control over the elements involved in creating the outcome - the form of the others in the race. And lastly it is demoralizing when an end goal does not work out as you desired, and it will require effort to build up energy to set a new goal.

Another type of goal is the performance goal: in this case the goal-setter sets out to reach a certain level of performance – I will finish the 1,500 metres race on Saturday in less than 3 minutes 30 seconds – I will finish writing my book by Decmeber 31, 2005 – I will increase productivity by 10 % in the next quarter.

A performance goal will be more within your control, as a result it will be easier to commit to and to take responsibility for. So if you do not win the race, but you put in a personal best (improving on your previous best time by more than 2 seconds), you can still congratulate yourself.

 
 
And of course juicy goals!

If you have an end goal, is it worth attaching a performance goal to it? Your goals are, of course, going to be specific, measurable, achievable, realistic and time sensitive (SMART); but most important of all - are your goals going to get your juices flowing and ignite action?

For the people in the long queue (the one for the job of CEO of General Electric) another question is especially pertinent: "How much are you willing to invest in the activity in order to achieve your goal?"

Realizing your full potential is a question of planning your right-sized steps to become more the person you want to be. And of course – ACTION.

What are you doing to be the person you want to be?

 
 

I am off to enjoy some sea and sun, so there will be no Nigel Buxton Update for the next two weeks.

If you are going on holiday too: Happy Holidays.

I work with people in business who want to do more with less – to make a greater contribution with less effort – to be more themselves with less holding them back.

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nigel
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